Loving friends is instinctive and universal — there is nothing distinctive about it. The mark of a Kingdom person is love that reaches beyond natural affection to those who cannot or will not return it.
Memory phrase: Love beyond those who love you back
Talk about it: Why is it easy to love people who are kind to you? Why is it harder to love people who aren't?
Prayer: God, help me love people even when they don't love me back. Help me go beyond easy love.