The problem is structural — not moral — at this point. There is no blame assigned. The land simply cannot bear two enormous households simultaneously. This is a practical reality of nomadic life with large flocks. But the resolution will reveal the character of each man — one will choose by faith, one by sight.
Memory phrase: Sometimes growth means God is calling us to spread out.
Talk about it: Their flocks had grown so large that the land couldn't hold them both. Does it make sense that too much blessing in one place can become a problem?
Prayer: God, when growth creates change and separation, help me trust that You are leading each person to exactly where You need them.